build connection,

strengthen relationships

IN-PERSON & VIRTUAL THERAPY FOR RELATIONSHIPS AND ATTACHMENT IN ILLINOIS

Where Understanding & Connection Begin

Rebuilding Connection

At Lily Counseling, we understand that relationships can be both deeply meaningful and deeply challenging. You may find yourself repeating the same patterns, feeling disconnected, or struggling to trust or feel close to others. Attachment-focused therapy helps you understand how your past experiences shape your relationships today and gives you tools to create healthier, more secure connections. You do not have to navigate this alone.

A Supportive Approach to Relationship Healing

Relationship and attachment therapy focuses on awareness, communication, and emotional safety. Together, we explore how you connect with others, identify unhelpful patterns, and build skills for stronger, more fulfilling relationships. Sessions are available in-person or virtually and are guided by your goals and comfort level.

If faith is important to you, we also offer faith-based counseling that integrates Christian or Catholic values into sessions in a supportive and respectful way.

WE take insurance

Relationship Therapy

when connection feels difficult

You might benefit from relationship and attachment therapy if you are experiencing:

  • Repeating patterns in relationships that feel hard to break

  • Fear of closeness or fear of abandonment

  • Difficulty trusting others or feeling emotionally safe

  • Challenges with communication or conflict

  • Feeling disconnected, lonely, or misunderstood

  • Strong emotional reactions in relationships

  • People pleasing or difficulty setting boundaries

  • Relationship stress rooted in past experiences

a partnership for Connection

At Lily Counseling, we offer more than therapy. We provide a supportive partnership focused on helping you build healthier relationships. Here is how we do it:

Attachment-Informed Care: Therapy that explores how early experiences shape current relationships

Skill-Building Support: Tools for communication, boundaries, and emotional regulation

Individualized Approach: Care tailored to your relationship history and goals

Faith-Based Counseling Option: Integration of Christian or Catholic values if that is meaningful to you

Comprehensive Care: Blending emotional insight with practical relationship strategies

Relationship Therapy

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

Our therapists in Chicago offer online and in-person therapy for individuals.

We offer practical strategies to help you manage the day-to-day while working toward deeper resolution.

For information on our therapists visit “ABOUT US”.

do you take insurance?

We are in-network (INN) with BCBS PPO and Blue Choice, United Health Care, AETNA, and SANA. INN client-payment responsibility varies based on plan. We can obtain a quote from your insurance company.

We are OON with all other insurance plans. If you are OON, you still may be eligible for reimbursement and we offer options to make services affordable— see below for details.

HSA/FSA is accepted to cover the cost of sessions (INN and OON). You or a family member may have HSA/FSA benefits through your employer. You also may have OON benefits and be eligible for reimbursement. Please contact your insurance company to inquire about your OON benefits. We can provide necessary documentation to submit claims to your insurance company.

• Session frequency is up to you (e.g. weekly, biweekly, monthly)

can i choose between in person and virtual sessions?

Take the first step today

Step 1

Fill out the Form:

Reach out to us by completing the form to get started. If you’re ready, you can also book your free consultation.

step 2

Start Your Counseling Journey Today:

After your consultation and intake is complete, you’ll begin your regular sessions with your counselor.

step 3

Find Your Balance:

Your journey to feeling like yourself again begins.

Helping you go from looking “put together,” to feeling “put together”

“…not only just listens and validates, but helps me understand why I’m stuck in my patterns and gives me the tools I need to change my ways…”

“…I love all the ways I’ve learned to apply the strategies to real life situations. It’s helped me gain new perspective and I’m not as stressed about tiny things anymore…”

“I’m getting better and better each week”

WORK WITH US

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Instagram: @lilycounseling

EMAIL: office@lilycounseling.com

TEXT or call: 312-248-3567