Own your worth,
step into confidence
IN-PERSON & VIRTUAL SESSIONS IN ILLINOIS
Where Inner Strength Meets Lasting Self-Belief
Build confidence from the inside out
At Lily Counseling, we understand how a lack of self-esteem can silently shape every part of your life—from the way you show up at work to how you navigate relationships. For high-functioning women, this often looks like overperforming, people-pleasing, or doubting your value behind closed doors. Our self-esteem counseling is designed to help you quiet the inner critic, reclaim your voice, and develop the kind of confidence that feels grounded—not forced. And if you’re looking for faith-informed support, we’re here to integrate that into your journey.
A Tailored Approach for Optimal results
Through a personalized blend of therapy, coaching, and self-worth work, we help you move beyond surface-level confidence and into a more secure, empowered sense of self. Whether in-person or online, our sessions provide a safe space to unpack old narratives, heal perfectionism, and learn how to fully trust yourself again.
WE take insurance
When self-doubt holds you back
Struggling with low self-esteem doesn’t always look obvious. Many of our clients are outwardly successful but quietly wrestling with feelings of inadequacy or not-enoughness. You’re not alone. Here are common reasons people seek self-esteem counseling at Lily Counseling:
-Constantly second-guessing yourself or needing external validation.
-Fear of being “found out” or not measuring up.
-Trouble accepting compliments or acknowledging your strengths.
-Feeling like you’re never doing enough, no matter how hard you try.
-Putting others first at the expense of your own needs.
-Struggling to set boundaries or speak up in relationships.
-Battling shame, self-criticism, or imposter syndrome.
a partnership for progress
At Lily Counseling, we’re not just here to cheer you on—we’re here to help you rewrite your inner story. Together, we’ll build the kind of self-esteem that’s rooted in truth, not perfection. Here’s how we support your growth:
Root-Cause Solutions: We help uncover the early messages and experiences that shaped your self-image—and begin to rewrite them.
Faith-Based Support: For those seeking spiritually integrated care, we offer a compassionate lens grounded in Christian and Catholic values.
Performance Psychology: Tools and strategies that help you overcome fear of failure, own your strengths, and lead with clarity.
Action-Oriented Coaching: Concrete steps to build self-worth, set boundaries, and shift your relationship with yourself.
Comprehensive Care: A full-spectrum approach that includes therapy, mindset shifts, and holistic self-development.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
We offer online and in-person therapy for individuals and couples.
We offer practical strategies to help you manage the day-to-day while working toward deeper resolution.
For information on our therapists visit “ABOUT US”.
Take the first step today
Step 1
Fill out the Form:
Reach out to us by completing the form to get started. If you’re ready, you can also book your free consultation.
step 2
Start Your Counseling Journey Today:
After your consultation and intake is complete, you’ll begin your regular sessions with your counselor.
step 3
Find Your Balance:
Your journey to feeling like yourself again begins.
our therapists
Helping you go from looking “put together,” to feeling “put together”
“…not only just listens and validates, but helps me understand why I’m stuck in my patterns and gives me the tools I need to change my ways…”
“…I love all the ways I’ve learned to apply the strategies to real life situations. It’s helped me gain new perspective and I’m not as stressed about tiny things anymore…”
“I’m getting better and better each week”
